Many people told me that they assume that I think that my way is the only way. That’s plain wrong but they don’t get why I write like this. I write about my experiences and how I see those things right now. Some people can have other opinions or other views but that doesn’t mean that they’re wrong. That makes life just so interesting. I like to break the rules and beat the fools but not everybody is a fan of this kind of mindset.
There are a lot of people who never want to leave their comfort zone. It’s all fine as long as they don’t complain about it. You’re in charge of your own life so you’ve got to find a way to get the most out of your life. It sounds easy because it is that easy. You don’t have an opponent in life, it’s just you vs you.
My way and the cover band comparison
How many famous cover bands do you know? None right? A copy of the original can never be as famous as the original. Most people neglect this fact and try to copy others’ behavior. So you need to follow the path of the one’s that already succeeded. People probably will notice who influenced you but you have to make it your own. People just have to realize that they’ve got a unique voice inside of them. There’s nothing more valuable than you. You are unique, you are special. There will never be someone just like you. We all live life differently. We all have different experiences and different insights that are valuable to others.
You should share them because other people could solve problems with these. Those people shouldn’t go through pain but grow due to the pain. People will show respect for the fact that you share your ups and downs. They’ll eventually even model you and that’s when you’ll start to realize that your life matters. At that point, it’s time to give something back.
That’s the reason why I shared my story.
That’s the reason why I wrote my post full of life lessons.
My way and the fact that I’ll never be perfect
I’ll never be perfect and I’m not afraid to admit it. A lot of people claim that I’ve got figured things out but there’s still a lot of work to do. It’s easy to claim that your whole life is back on the rails. It put’s you in comfort zone and you’ll be gently put to sleep. You’ll need to get back on track and there’s nothing more frustrating than having to do it. Accepting this is the first step in getting rid of the ego. It doesn’t matter that all your friends are marrying or moving in together while you’re still single. They’ve got problems as well but you probably don’t see them. It’s still safe to say that this blog isn’t like all the others. It would be ashamed if it would be.
My way is a blueprint but…
Life and fighting have a lot in common and I’m not the first person who said this. But have you ever seen 2 fighters with the same style? No, you didn’t. You need to look at what others did, use what you can use and discard what you can’t use. You need to make sure that you create your style of doing things. So you can’t expect the same results if you’re copying someone’s style. They did it their way and you have to do it your way. But there are certain things that you just can’t neglect.
You need to learn how you can deal with failure.
You need to learn how you can embrace adversity.
It’s all good if you’ve got the right perspective.
Oh, and you need to stop making excuses.
Just make sure that you do it your way and not my way.
Enjoy life on your terms.
Just do it. Do it your way.
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