Have you ever been around negative people? It’s all sunshine and rainbows when you’re around them right? They’re always the ones who’ll cheer you up when you’re down. Oh, wait that’s what they don’t do. I don’t like negative people but they don’t like me either so I guess that we’re on good terms. They call me delusional and I just don’t care. Negative people aren’t particularly fond of my positive mindset. Some of them even hate it and tell me to stop being like that then I just smile and that’s when all hell breaks loose. So this post is dedicated to all the people with a negative mindset. It’s a wake-up call to change your life before you’ll lose all your friends. Well, you won’t lose all of them but you’ll lose all the good ones.
Anyways, I can’t be around negative people but you shouldn’t be around them either.
You should avoid negative people like the plague.
So have you ever been around them? Their behavior is infectious, isn’t it? I mean they keep complaining about dumb shit and you will take over their whole mindset if you keep spending time with them. Trust me it’ll happen if you’re not careful. These people are one of a kind I’ve got to give it to them but I don’t judge because I was just like that in the past and now I realize that I behaved like a pussy. I mean let’s take a close look at your behavior. Something bad happens, because all the bad things happen to you right? You’re born to have bad luck, right? The answer is no!
Stop complaining all the freaking time!
You should stop acting like you can’t act when something bad happens to you! The worst thing that you can do is come up with excuses.
All your complaining and whining is a waste of time.
Most people are professional time wasters. They’re pro at wasting their own time but also the time of others. They just want to ramble for hours in a row and don’t even care that they’re occupying others. Just look at how many times you’ve wasted over the years complaining about irrelevant shit. Just look at how many of the problems that you’ve made worse just by doing nothing and complaining about it. All that time could have been used to crush a goal, solve your problems, start something new… Even meditating for 10 hours straight on a rock is more useful than acting like a victim or complaining all the time. At least you did something that didn’t negatively affect you.
You could have done so many useful things and you just wasted every single opportunity to get better. You were so busy making excuses that you probably missed the solution that was right in front of you. I know what you’re about to say. You’re going to claim that you’ve had a hard life so far.
We all have a hard road!
Do you think that my life is or was easy? Fack no? Life knocked me down so many times now but I always found a way to get back up! I don’t want to be the guy that gets knocked down and stays down. Is it hard? Absolutely but it’s worth it as well. Even I stay down sometimes but those experiences made me better in the long run. I always turn my pain into fuel and that’s what you should do as well. You should be stronger in the places that were broken. It’s an irrelevant excuse in my opinion.
So what’s your excuse now? Can you come up with more irrelevant shit that’s holding you down? I’m pretty sure that you can but I’m not going to pay attention to it.
Get your act together and try to lift others instead of putting them down. That’s what great people do.
In conclusion: life and your friends are just as great as your mindset.
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Alex
“Get your act together and try to lift people up instead of putting them down”
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