Let’s talk about being a gentleman. Most guys try or want to be a gentleman but they just can’t pull it off and there’s a good reason for it. They weren’t a man when they tried it so they’ll never be able to be a gentleman. You see a gentleman is soft but in a good way. He was a completely different guy before he became a gentleman. There are just some characteristics that you need to develop before you can call yourself a man. You need to become Mister Alpha instead of Mister Grey. So basically I’m telling you to toughen up instead of being a pussy.
My journey turned me into a gentleman without realizing it
There’s are some key differences between boys and men. The sad reality is that most guys will remain boys for the rest of their lives. They all hate real men because they’ve got nothing better to do with their time. Losers focus on winners while winners focus on winning is a saying for a reason. Anyway, I was a boy myself back in the days. I didn’t evolve a lot between the age of 16 and 21, to be honest. I was extremely immature until I started the quest to improve myself. So I became a man at first, I just didn’t realize it. I was pretty hard on myself and others. Maybe a bit too hard but I learned from every mistake that I made. So I became better and better and suddenly I was able to turn soft. I suddenly had a drama free life. Well, there were still problems but not that much as back in the days.
I suddenly realized that it’s okay to show emotions and feelings because it’s a strength instead of a weakness. People started calling me and Alpha male and a gentleman. It was a sign that I was on the right track and now it’s time for you to do the same.
The road to being a gentleman
I’ve covered a lot of this in my upcoming book but let me share with you 2 secrets. You have to know your norms and values because otherwise, almost everybody will walk over you. They’ll use you and keep on using you till you’ve reached a point where you’ve had it. This is the most important one, to be honest. I developed this by reading a lot. I think that it’s safe to say that The Way Of The Superior Man is a great book. It’ll give you a headstart towards the others. Most people don’t want to read anymore because they don’t have time. It’s all bullshit. Read, it’s all that you need.
You can only become a good man when you’ve read mediations. It’s a book that’s been read by tons of successful people and they keep on reading it. This can’t be a coincidence. The book is full of wisdom and you won’t understand everything after reading it the first time. I’ve read it 5 times and I’m still learning so far. Buy it here.
So what did we learn? You can’t soften something soft since it requires zero effort. You’ll remain the same guy without a backbone. People will still walk over you and didn’t you want to avoid that?
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Alex
