Don’t pretend that you’re ok. You’re wasting precious time. Do you get what I mean? Probably not otherwise you wouldn’t read this post. Most people are pretending that they’re satisfied with where they are. They pretend that they’re ok and they pretend that they haven’t got any ambitions in life. But everybody wants more out of life. Everybody is dreaming about something. It could be cars or fancy trips. What doesn’t matter? What matters is that you don’t want to admit it. You’re scared to admit that you’ve got a burning obsession deep down inside of you. There’s nothing to be scared about, it’s great to have an obsession. Read More

More and more people are holding grudges towards others and this is dangerous. I’ll explain in a minute why but first I’m going to tell you how I came up with this blog post. This must be the first time that I share my muse. So about one week ago we had Brazilian Ji Jitsu and we were sparring at the end. It was my first real training after I had been injured for a week. During that sparring session I got in a really bad position and all my bodyweight was pressing on my neck (a bit like the candle pose from yoga). I tried to triangle him but he escaped and we got in a bad position (google it if you’ve got no clue what I’m talking about). Read More

Let’s talk about getting and being in the zone here. The zone is a beautiful place where you can get amazing results. Most people just don’t seem to be able to get into the zone and there’s a good reason for it. They are driven by thoughts and emotions when they have to perform. You’ll never be able to get into the zone if you’re not able to be present at the moment. Forget about what people said to you 5 minutes ago. Forget about the stress that you’ve got because you’ve got to perform in the future you’ve got to forget about all of it. You’re not allowed to be driven by emotions in any way. You’re only allowed to be present in the moment. Read More

Most people claim that feelings or motivation isn’t there when they have to do something. There is some kind of fear that’s imprisoning people’s mind and it’s a frustrating process. So you can know what you want and realize what you should do but still end up doing nothing. Did you realize that all our decision are based on our feelings? It’s all based on how we feel in the moment but there a problem in this kind of thinking. Most people will never be present in the moment. You need to unleash the power of now and learn to use your mind. Mel Robbins discussed this in her book The 5 Second Rule. Buy it here.

This all sounds great but I’m going to cover a version from my own. I call it the 4-second window and I’ll explain it in the end. Read More

Let’s talk about dumb and dumber here. It’s a common fact that most people don’t get any smarter after the age of 21. Some are lucky and evolve till the age of 23 but it all ends after that. I never peaked at the age of 23 and have been evolving ever since (I’m 24 at the moment). Most people know that it’s coming. They know that they’re reaching their limits. So what do they do? They accept it. Almost everyone accepts the fact that they’re about to decline in their mental age. You can spot easily who’s going to face this. It’s easy to tell who will live like 16 years old in the body of a 40-year-old.

So why did I choose the title dumb and dumber you ask? Because somehow there’s always someone who fucks up even more. There’s always that one person who can amaze you with his stupidity. Read More

Let’s talk about being a gentleman. Most guys try or want to be a gentleman but they just can’t pull it off and there’s a good reason for it. They weren’t a man when they tried it so they’ll never be able to be a gentleman. You see a gentleman is soft but in a good way. He was a completely different guy before he became a gentleman. There are just some characteristics that you need to develop before you can call yourself a man. You need to become Mister Alpha instead of Mister Grey. So basically I’m telling you to toughen up instead of being a pussy. Read More

Let me share with you some advice from the greatest over here. There aren’t a lot of people who achieve greatness. Only 1% of the whole population can achieve it and that’s a shame. I believe that everybody has the potential to do something great in life but you can easily spot if someone will be great in life. You just know it about the way they talk and so on. There’s something different about them that makes them stand out. You have 3 kinds of people. The ones that make it, the ones that don’t make it and the ones that have the potential to make it. The latter are the most frustrating ones because they are the ones that mostly don’t make it as well. Read More

Let’s talk about reality shows for a minute here. Normal people seem to be extremely fond of these shows and there’s a good reason for it. They can’t face their problems so they’re looking for a way to escape their own fucked up reality. People get agitated when I bring stuff like this up. I’ve heard things like: “you’ve got it all figured out now that you’ve got your life back in order don’t you”. There’s a pretty simple rule: don’t ask my opinion if you can’t handle it. Don’t hate, because I’ll serve you some fancy oneliners on a silver plate. Others keep on claiming that these shows are so damn funny but they’re not. I wouldn’t want to be the dad of one of those kids who’re participating in those reality shows.

Life is a big reality show, to be honest. I don’t need a television for my entertainment. It’s time to give you the reality check that you’ve always wanted to avoid. Read More

Let me share with you an example of where your mind controls your body. Well, your mind is always in control but you can’t let it control you.  Most people quit way too soon. They quit when they’re at 40% of their capacities and that’s why they’ll never get anywhere in life. I go all in and probably put more in than most people. I don’t finish when I’m tired, I finish when I’m done. It may sound like a cheesy tagline but that’s just how champions roll. They work and keep on working. Read More

Looking to find the right wife? I’ve got you covered (wife not included). Ever heard of the saying “happy wife equals happy life”? Does that sound right in your opinion? What if she isn’t the right wife? I think that it’s safe to say that we’ve been all in a relationship with the wrong person or at least dated someone like that. That person can be someone who’s never satisfied and trying to please them is a never-ending cycle of problems. How can you be happy if you’re constantly focusing on someone else’s happiness? You’ll constantly have to make sacrifices which will make you more and more miserable. Read More