Most people aren’t that interesting but they don’t realize it. They keep on telling the same stories and they don’t even realize it. It’s freaking boring after a while. You can tell their stories after a while and that’s no fun at all. Those people are mostly bored all day and I don’t get how they do it. How can you be bored in this day and age? There are so many interesting things to learn and you waste your time by doing nothing. Or you waste all your time on social media what’s even worse. Social media is for little boys but not for real men.

Now I assume that you want to be more interesting? Let’s take a look at how you can do it. Read More

Did you ever try to change your life? A lot of people ask me how I changed my life and how long it took. Well, the pain made sure that I had to rethink my whole life. There’s no secret or a hack here. Just intense pain and the fact that I reached a point where it was enough. Most people learn to live with the pain. There’s something seriously wrong when you’re having a burnout. That isn’t natural but it occurs more and more these days. My grandfather doesn’t even know what it is. It didn’t occur when he was younger. So people pop pills and claim that they feel better. But how can you feel better? Your body and mind gave you a sign that something had to change and you didn’t change anything. You just looked for some prescription drugs.

Can you guess what you did? You just tried to take the quick fix and it may work in the short run but it’ll fuck you up in the long run. Read More

Do your surroundings matter in life? A lot of people are asking this question lately because people misuse their surroundings to get nothing done. They’re just coming up with excuses to postpone the things that they think they want to do. But do they matter? Well yes and no to be honest. Your surroundings can put you in a comfort zone which is dangerous but in the end, it’s all up to you. The fun thing is that most people assume that good surroundings are everything you need to succeed in life.  Read More

Do you have good friends or toxic friends? The answer might surprise you. You’ll always have some toxic friend in your group so it’s better that you recognize them. Those people will use you when they need too and drop you when they want too. I have a small circle of friends and it’s my own choice. I don’t need many friends, to be honest. Most people are trying to be surrounded by people all the time and that’s why you can have some toxic friends. There’s a bigger chance that you’ve got them if you’ve got a big circle of friends. You’re completely fucked if you’re not able to be alone. 

You’ll try all sorts of escapism and you won’t even realize it. So let’s take a look at how you can recognize your good friends. Read More

I went bike riding yesterday to visit my grandfather. I was looking to get into the red zone which means that I’ll be exhausted to improve my endurance. So most people will wonder how a bike ride can contain a valuable lesson. Most people don’t realize that you can learn something from everything you do. You just have to be present at the moment. It’s addictive to learn every single day although most people hate it. That’s the fault of our educational system. 

People get dumb and dumber these days. It’s pretty sad to witness this whole trend. I’m pretty sure that some will even laugh at me when I would tell them that I learned a lesson from riding my bike. They can laugh all they want since I don’t care about the haters. Never return hate because the situation will only get worse. Read More

Have you ever had to face fear? Sometimes there are little things that make us afraid but sometimes it’ll be the big things. You’ll always have to face fear in life. It’s just a part of it but most people just freeze. They tend to overthink everything because they’re not brave enough. They avoid it because they’re afraid to leave the herd that’s called society. In every decision that you make there’s an element of fun. Find the fun part and you’ll don’t want to do anything else in life. You can even do shit jobs and make it enjoyable. Let me guide you through your fear. Read More

Have you ever heard someone claim that they’re a self made? Some people claim that but those people mostly had rich parents. Rich parents are a freaking curse but most people don’t realize it. They focus on the bling-bling and forget about the rest. They just focus on the good and neglect the bad. Those people mostly don’t want to work hard while there’s nothing more addicting than hard work. So does being self-made exist? Arnold Schwarzenegger wrote the foreword for Tim Ferris his book Tools Of Titans.  He claimed that he wasn’t self-made at all and that was an eye-opening vision. You see I never considered myself as self-made but most people claim that I did it all on my own. That’s not true. Nobody ever did it on his own. We’re just too blind to see it. Read More

In life, you either win or lose it’s that simple. Well, that’s what most people assume. But is it that simple? People hate losing because they can’t wrap their heads around it. People always focus on the win but that comes with a potential side effect. Most people keep losing at one point in life so they start to focus on wins from the past. They brag about the things that they’ve got achieved and can’t move forward anymore. These people stop growing and won’t achieve anything if they’re not breaking this vicious cycle. You need to be present in the now. People have the wrong approach when it comes to a win or a loss. I’m here to teach you how to win and lose in life. It’s not the approach that most people take but I don’t like following the herd. Read More

Have you ever noticed that a lot of people like traveling from place to place a lot? The more places in a short term, the better but most of them don’t get that it’s a form of escapism. I devoted a whole post to this matter before. The bottom line is that it’ll do you more harm than good but people neglect this. They just keep on traveling just to escape their own lives. A lot of people have to escape reality since sometimes reality can be harsh. I mean how many times have you heard that people are going to travel to find themselves.

They need a foreign country to get to know themselves. The statement itself doesn’t even make sense. Finding yourself means that you knew yourself before. Most people don’t. Second, how will you find yourself in a country you’ve never been to before?

You get the point right? You can’t get to know the real you if you’re constantly seeing new things/locations. You basically don’t have time to get to know yourself, hence it’s a form of escapism.

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Have you ever heard of passion? Of course, you have since it’s used a lot by motivational speakers. I don’t have the intention to become a motivational speaker but I would never talk about it. I don’t even know what it is. You can’t eat it or be it. It’s just an empty emotion that makes sure that you do absolutely nothing. That’s what it is, nothing more and nothing less. Passion is the zero but obsession is the alpha. Passionate people aren’t getting anything done in a day. They do a lot but it’s all dead time. Passionate people seem to be afraid of acting on something that they like. Can you guess how many bills get paid with passion? None! Read More