So many people use the no time excuse to cancel plans. Too many people accept this dumb excuse but I don’t and I know other people who hate it as well. The excuse is bullshit. People who use this excuse all the time are either pussies or they lost their grip on life. I believe that it’s safe to say that this is the cheapest excuse in our modern-day society. It really can’t get any worse than this. I remember that a guy once asked me how to get in shape. So I wanted to help him. Turns out that he had no time to cook or workout but he did found time to be lazy all the time. Funny isn’t it? People who use this excuse are miserable, lazy or uninspired. It’s time to debunk this bullshit excuse once and for all.

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Can you guess the definition of hell?! You probably assume that hell must be something like being together with your ex again but it’s not. The real definition of hell is this: on your last day on earth the person you became will meet the person you should have become. Get it? Let it sink in for a moment and read it again. The real definition of hell is this: on your last day on earth the person you became will meet the person you should have become. Now that’s what I call a meaningful quote. Can you even imagine that you meet yourself but as a better version. You’ll suddenly realize that you fucked up your whole life. That can’t be a joyful feeling and you can’t escape death so what can you do to avoid something like this? Read More

Tomorrow there’s just another day right? You know that I’m right but most people don’t have this mindset. I’ll explain in a minute what I’m talking about. You just have to remember one sentence: tomorrow there’s just another day right. Easy right? Now you just have to apply the mindset and you’re set to go. Most people are just too dumb to realize that a new day can mean that you get a new beginning. I’ll share a pretty funny story that happened a few years ago. You’ll immediately get what I mean. Read More

Have you ever noticed that people get overly excited about the weekend? I’ve seen the same shit over and over again on Instagram. Stuff like “it’s Friyay” and so on. Most people are just tired from a whole week at work but there’s a catch.  They aren’t tired because they worked hard. Those people are mostly busy instead of productive. They’re sitting down all day or do the same thing over and over again. Which is boring and makes you want to sleep if you ask me. I can describe every single day of most people without even trying hard. Here we go. Read More

A long time ago I wrote a post about unhappiness and how it can make you extremely stupid things (read it here). It was a top 10 post for a very long time as far as I remember. Unhappiness can wreck your whole life and you’ll be the victim of your dumb behavior. This can result in overconsumption of booze or drugs. You wouldn’t be able to get your shit together because you aren’t facing your problems the right way. You aren’t showing what you’re made off and that’s the reason why you’re acting this dumb.

Unhappiness made me almost do the dumbest thing in life and that’s committing suicide. I was beaten down to the ground and saw no way of getting back up. Luckily I didn’t perform the act and used my unhappiness differently. I used it as a way to change my whole life. I could have stopped after I had beaten my depression. You can read here how I did it but I didn’t want to stop there. There was a point where I realized that I wanted to get more out of life.

Unhappiness can be your biggest fuel

My depression is the first example of the fact that unhappiness doesn’t necessarily have to be negative. It’s something that can drive you to become the best version of yourself. Believe me, it’s possible to become the best version of yourself but you’ve got to put in the time and the work.

Most people don’t believe me but I believe that everybody can reach their full potential but most people have one big issue they can’t conquer. You just need to reach a point where you sick of your current situation. That’s your turning point.

Unhappiness can lower your self- esteem big time

Most people are extremely insecure about their appearance or potential. This combination can be a killer and is something that needs to be addressed as soon as possible. It’s all in your head and that’s something that most people don’t even realize.

The person who says “I can” and “I can’t” are both usually right. It sounds like a dumb motivational line but this line is right. You poison your mind by telling yourself you can’t and this results in the fact that you fail. The hardest part is that you get a completely wrong image of yourself because you’re lowering your self- esteem every damn time you do this.

It would be pretty dumb to ignore this fact and pretty damn foolish to keep on doing it. It’s always better to make a change but are you prepared to do it? Just use your mind because it’s the most powerful supplement on this earth.

Unhappiness: what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger

Life is all about perception. You can label a situation as either good or bad. So learn to master the art of turning the odds into your favor. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Most people just die mentally after a setback. Not literally of course but most people never recover from a setback. This is something that shouldn’t occur in this day and age anymore. Those people don’t realize that the cure for the pain is always in the pain.

This may be a lot to process but realize that it’s a long process. Change never happens overnight.

In conclusion: unhappiness should be your stepping stone and not something that holds you down.

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Are you stuck in a rut? Why don’t you follow your gut?! No seriously why don’t you do it?! In the past few months, a lot of people have asked me advice because they felt stuck. They didn’t know what to do. They all had one thing in common. Those people were stuck in a rut. So I gave them some advice and most of them told me the same. They all asked me the following question: “Alex why do you always make things so easy?!” Well, my friend, that’s because they’re that easy. You just turn it into some rocket science project which makes it impossible to solve. Just stick to the basics in life, those are hard enough to master on their own. Still, stuck in a rut? Let me help you.

Well, I’m going to help you a bit. I can’t the problem itself of course. That’s your job!

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Could you please save your drama for your mama? Most people can produce a lot of drama in a day and it’s pretty exhausting, to be honest. They should rename Queens to Drama Queens and invite all the toxic people over there. I would never visit that place. There would be too much negativity. But why do people turn into drama queens? That’s a pretty intriguing question, isn’t it? Well, I’ll try to explain it to you. Read More

So was yesterday your perfect Monday? Most people don’t even realize what a perfect Monday is but they all hope for it though. The perfect Monday goes as follows. You plan to change your whole life. You plan it all out and you just have to start on Monday. Why Monday you ask? Well because that’s just the perfect day of course. Who would make drastic changes on a Tuesday or even a Friday?! That’s just impossible! Society tells you to start on Monday so you start on Monday. That’s how most people think but I hate to disagree with you on this one. Okay, I don’t. I don’t like to follow the herd.

I guess that the start of a new week has something to do with this whole hype. The perfect Monday is the magical day that never seems to arrive. The struggle is real on this one. Read More

You want to have a happy life, don’t you? Well, you’ll need to be able to find balance. But I can guarantee you that it’s harder than it seems. It’s easy to write about it but finding the balance itself is harder at times. You see life is just a series of highs (happy times) and lows (less pleasant times). Some people get caught up in the lows and those people get stuck in a rut. Those are the people who feel cheated by life. Life, however, didn’t cheat them, those people cheated on their selves. They couldn’t find a balance so they fell down and never got up.

It’s not their fault. They just don’t teach you this stuff in school. Luckily I’m here to help you. Read More

Are you facing regret? Most people face it all the time. They should have done this or that. Those people are living in the past and are never present in the moment. Those are the people who would like to go back in time and give tons of advice to their younger self. Can you guess what I would tell my younger self? Nothing! I would just grab a chair and some popcorn and laugh at all my mistakes. I didn’t end up to bad and all those actions made me who I am today.

I’m happy with who I am so why would I try to change it? That would be really dumb! Sure I faced some bad times but we all did. Some people break and others get stronger after those periods. I suggest that you try to become a better version of yourself instead of being miserable all the time.  So let’s take a look at why you’re facing regret and what to do about it off course.

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