You have to learn to walk away from things in life. This isn’t easy but let me explain to you why you should do it. So I was eating and somebody started to throw a lot of shit at me. In the past, I always reacted to it. I didn’t offend the person but I was always wondering why people can be so frustrated by life. So this time I didn’t react to it. I just took up my plate with food and walked away. The person’s reaction was priceless. The person got even angrier and asked me to come back because they weren’t done yet. But I didn’t return because why would I spend time with a person who wants to take me down? It would be a giant waste of time. But a lot of people would start to argue because their emotions get the best of them.
They basically would get into a dumb argument without even knowing what they’re arguing about. Or argue about the same things over and over again without ever coming to a solution. Which is what most people seem to do these days. Some people argue about the same things years down the road. It’s like they don’t progress at all.
Be the bigger man: learn to walk away. Because people are bored.
Most people are bored these days. They stare at their phone and have nothing going on so they eagerly cause drama because that’s what excites them. I mean it’s a lot more fun than doing nothing or feeling bored all the time. But people who value their time don’t care about unneeded drama. Yes, you’ve read it correctly. Bored people don’t value their time at all. It’s doesn’t matter what they do, as long as they’re not bored. They don’t get that time is their most valuable asset. So shitting on other people can be pretty fun in their eyes. Or they gossip about other people, that’s a sign that they don’t like their life either. Just walk away from these people. They have nothing to offer. That’s what idiots do. They’ll eventually drag you down to their level and beat you with their own experience.
That’s just the sad reality.
Be the bigger man: learn to walk away. Dating.
A lot of guys chase women these days. They’ll get walked over but keep on forgiving her. I’ve done the same in the past but I learned from my past experiences. I realized that some girls aren’t playing hard to get but are just looking for attention. Some of them even date other guys or aren’t interested at all but still enjoy the attention. So what do you do when such a girl enters your life? You walk away. That’s the only thing that you’ve got to do. It’ll make your life a lot better. It’s better to attack the problem at its roots than waiting until she completely walks all over you. The reason why is pretty simple. You’ll be extremely mad at yourself when it happens and be full of bad feelings.
So why wait? Your emotions aren’t toys so don’t let people play with them. Some girls have a long way to go, so kick the bitch out, work on yourself and date a real woman.
Be the bigger man: learn to walk away. People in general.
Some people are complete assholes and those people can be good friends (well I wouldn’t say good but you know what I mean), family and so on. Some of those people might be extremely toxic and you might accept it because you know them your whole life but you need to walk away from these people. It’s for the sake of your health. They won’t change overnight and they’ll probably never change either. This might sound harsh but now 2 things might happen. They’ll have no clue why you ignore them and never talk to you again but you’re happy.
It takes some time (might be 10 years) but they turn around and you can still enjoy some quality time with them. Everybody can change but most people just don’t do it.
A story to end this blog. Walk away because it does matter.
I once wrote a blog where I shared life advice from a 92-year-old. Now I’ve got some advice from a guy who doesn’t have long to live. He’s diagnosed with terminal cancer, he won’t have a lot more time on this earth. He told me: carpe diem, use your time wisely because it’s over before you know it. So why would you spend energy and time for people who don’t want the best for you? Why would you WASTE time on people who’re just craving for attention? Nobody gets better from this behavior. You get frustrated while you enforce their behavior so they’ll do it again and again and again.
Think closely about your actions because we always assume that we’ve got so much time. We always wait to take action until death knocks at the door and it’s all too late. Your time is limited, the sad part is that you just don’t know when your time is up. So why don’t you take ownership of your life and make the most out of it?
In conclusion: Be the bigger man: learn to walk away.
It’s easy to get dragged away in an emotional argument. A lot of people tend to do this. Others go on to fight because their ego got hurt. But all those things don’t matter. You’ll get insults from so many people in life. People will call names on you every single day. Some people might call your fat, skinny gay, fag, autist and so on. People can use tons of different terms and that’s okay. Just walk away because they don’t have power over you if you walk away. They’ll be left alone and frustrated because you walked away. But what are they going to do when you’ve walked away? Nothing because they don’t have power over you.
Just focus on yourself, walk away from the wrong people who want to hurt you and walk together with the right people straight to a better future. Walk straight to the top of the mountain and enjoy the view because most people never see this beauty in life. They’ll never see it because they’re stuck at the bottom gossiping about people on top.
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So true.
Some people just argue for the sake of arguing and others gossip and run their mouths simply out of boredom. This is the toxicity that we simply don’t need in our lives so very true – best to just walk away.
facts! Well said!